SHE has what it takes; knowledgeable, courageous spirit, and a caring heart for the people! At 16, she has been making big Organizations, Politicians, World Leaders and Citizens take notice of the environmental threats for years! Fed up with the poor management of Global warming and Climate change issues, Thunberg from Sweden, decided to take matters into her own hands and invited other young followers to stage rallies that has the world talking and paying close attention!” This is not a drill”, she tells her listeners on Friday, in NYC after the rally at Battery park , NYC. Hundreds of thousands boycotted school, work and other activities to lend their voices and raise placards spelling out their concerns.

A young voice cried out, “just because we are not old enough to vote does not mean we have no voices”.


AT Capitol Hill hearing, she submitted an IPCC special report on Global warming, released October 8,2018 in place of her personal testimony, because; ” I don’t want you to listen to me, I want you to listen to the Scientists, then I want you to unite behind Science and then, I want you to take real Action!”


Louisiana Rep Garret Graves threw her a hypothetical question; “If you are sailing on a boat and picking up trash along the way, and for everyone piece you pick up, there’s another boat dumping five pieces of trash, how will that make you feel? “Greta did not stutter, Immediately responding with this impressive reply; If you use that Logic, then I am also dumping a lot of trash in the Ocean, I will stop dumping and tell the other boat to stop dumping their trash as well! (A brilliant reply, indicating that the way to change is to lead by example)! He probably expected her to say, “that would be frustrating”, or ” I will be mad” but she proved smarter!

Florida -D Rep Kathy Castor threw her another curve ball, with this; “Some people say that the U.S should not dramatically reduce our emissions because China and other Countries are not doing enough to reduce theirs .” Again, young Greta’s response (which got a lot of chuckles incidentally ) was full of wit and wisdom beyond her age .”I am from Sweden, a small country and there’s the same argument that ‘ why should we do anything, just look at U.S,’ they say, so that also has been used against you as well “. she added with a grin.

In a publication written by Jon Queally for CommonDreams. Org December 19,2018 , the teen described how “at the age of eleven, several years after learning about the concept of climate change for the first time, she fell into a depression and became ill. “I stopped talking. I stopped eating,” she explains. “In two months, I lost about ten kilos of weight. Later on I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, OCD, and selective mutism—that basically means I only speak when I think it’s necessary.”

To those who mock her illness and cause, she responds in mature reasoning , “they feel threatened by this movement, that means we’re making a difference! And this is only the beginning. ” warns the fearless teen.She may suffer some health disabilities, but this teenager is SHARP, ARTICULATE, QUICK , KNOWS THE PROBLEMS AND HAS SOLUTIONS , ALL SHE NEEDS NOW IS ACTION!

Above : Activist Greta and her Swedish Opera singer -Mom Malena and Dad Svante Thunberg author ,(our house is on fire), arts manager and producer (Scenes from the heart).

The environmental activist emphasized on importance of transparencies about the global warming and climate issues: “As it is now, people in general do not seem to be aware about the actual science and how severe the crisis is, so I think we need to inform them, and start treating this crisis like the existential crisis it is , and then, I think, People will start doing something about it!”

In less than a week, they have had organized #climatechange rallies in over” 163 countries ” and reportedly have had “4,638 events”. Some adults have also been quite supportive , especially Student groups, Labor and environmental organizations, humanitarians and other activists. I have no doubt we will be hearing from, and seeing more of Greta Thunberg!

From all I have observed , and researched so far , about her intellect, background, character, passion and personality, I will say this young lady can be president if she wanted to run someday! I WILL SAY FIRST RUN FOR CONGRESS GRETA, YOU CAN COUNT ON MY VOTE!.



Demi Lovato Celebrates her bodyimage ,no more photoshops or edits#CELLULIT!!!!!

The 27 year American singer, songwriter, actress,and T.V judge ( Demetria DevonnLovato) went on Instagram and unashamedly posted an unedited photo of herself in two piece bikini and, bravely declares this is the real Demi while encouraging others to appreciate who and what they represent.

“This is my biggest fear. A photo of me in a bikini unedited. And guess what? It’s CELLULIT!!!! I am Literally Soooo tired of being ashamed of my body, editing it (Yes the other bikini pics were edited and I hate that I did that, but it’s the truth). So that others think I’m THEIR idea of what beautiful is. But it’s just not me. This is what I got. I want this new chapter in my life to be about being authentic to who I am.

Rather than being judged based on other peoples standard of what beautiful is , she wrote: “So here’s me unashamed, unafraid and proud to own a body that has fought through so much and will continue to amaze me when I hopefully give birth one day”.Anyway here’s to RAW, REAL, and I love me….I hope to inspire someone to appreciate their body today#nationalcelluliteday.#CELLULIT!!!!@ddlovato(Instagram).

I personally applaud this bold move by Demi ,( Demetria Devonne Lovato). Considering, that last year, 2018 the singer suffered a near death experience ; when she was found unresponsive after an apparent drug over-dose. She was hospitalized over a week! Demi thankful to be alive, willingly checked into a rehab center for some time .She has always been open and apologetic to her fans for her fragile human errors, as a result of struggling with the demons of ” acceptance,” and having a “perfect body image” or size, she once tweeted after an emotional concert in Lisbon Portugal , June ,2018 “Tonight I took the stage a new person with a new life.Thank you to everyone who has supported me through this journey, it will never be forgotten@ddlovato. The singer and actress as a young child started acting in Barneys and friends, then on to Disney channel, some of her work included Camp Rock 1 and 2, and as musical artist produced successful songs including,” Sorry, Not Sorry,” “Give your heart a break” and “ confident“.Seems to be , Demi is living out her songs without apologies!

I am also applauding her need to unmask and reveal the authentic Demi; the one who, though a celebrity, isn’t perfect,because she’s like the rest of us, Just human! Like all imperfect, uniquely created individuals, she should be allowed to be herself , without anyone judging, or social media pressures nor criticisms!

Why do we feel the compulsion to push people to such close to cliff-edge limits , with unnecessary , unfair demands of “perfection” and “conditional affection” . What qualifies any person to make such call? No body is perfect and we need to redirect our energy to positively ending unnecessary world starvation, sicknesses and diseases, providing shelter for homeless, making education affordable, preserving natural resources through recycling and breathable air , and not just “making America great again”, but generally making the world a better place to Live.

By Millicent Olaghere Blast


THE MET GALA 2019-The Surprises, who shocked us, and, who wore it best!

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Everyone bought their fair share

To The red carpet Affair

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by Millicent Olaghere Blast

Every year the Metropolitan Museum of Arts choose a theme for their Gala to raise funds to support the Costume Institute of Arts and Culture. The 2019 MET Gala theme was a nod from Susan Sontag first book of essays ; Camp: Notes on Fashion .The late American writer, filmmaker, philosopher and, political activist expressed the importance of seeing the world, not just in a singular aesthetic form of beauty, but also, as an ‘artifice of stylization’! She emphasized the significance of drawing on the’Extra’; taking a closer look at the unnatural elements and exaggerations.

It is a Red carpet affair. And, because it is an invitation only event, (though it cost guests $30.000 per head), there are mostly celebrities, fashion biggest names, top designers and models, and other special VIPs at what is considered the “biggest , baddest event in history of Fashion fundraiser.” Established by Eleanor Lambert, a Fashion Publicist, as fundraiser support for the MET institute; the first Gala held was a dinner in 1948. Each guest paid $50 for a ticket. This year like previous, it was held in New York; cocktail hour kicks off, then dinner is followed by the exhibits.

They came out in their unique ensembles, famous faces in Arts, Film, Fashion and, Music industries; some stole our hearts, others rode on them, and, many ripped it right off ! Okay, perhaps I exaggerate a little. But if the instructions were CAMP : Notes on Fashion, I say, this was a long drawn one! And not, just in cursive! It was a full blown expository! It was humor personified!

In her review ‘Extreme one -upmanship on the 2019 MET GALA Red Carpet; the New York Times chief fashion critic, Vanessa Friedmann described the parody artifice and, elements of exaggeration in this way “the dress code may have been studied triviality, but it’s expression was most often extravagant literalism.” In simpler terms, it means: interpreting from the basic to an extraordinary place!.

Celine Dion in her Dignified Platform;

The undisputed fashion diva, singer-songwriter, mother, business lady All- by- her- self, reigns on the red carpet! Meet the Queen who has it all: $$$ (over $700 million of it) , exquisite fashion style, energy, she’s practically unstoppable, who only last year completed eight years residency in Las Vegas at Ceasers Palace.

Jared Leto-American actor and singer -vibrant and dominant fashion warrior in red! Never one to shy from challenging projects went for shock-appeal, distinctively taking not just matters of ‘the Camp’, but his own head in his hands! well as long as it his head!

Michael Urie is -all appealing! The Ugly Betty star is refreshingly amusing; as he seems to translate the theme, when in doubt go for all!

Gaga changed four times at the 2019 MET Gala. She appeared in a voluptuous tent like, pink ensemble, face elaborately made up, with extensive fake lash drawn. it required 6 tuxedo clad men to assist. Next was a strapless black ball gown. I loved the style but, feel she looks better in bright colors like Red , Pink, or electric Blue. The third was another pink, more fitted to her curves. I loved the strapless style and fit.

According to Allure.com ;”Gaga made an entrance that is bound to go down in red carpet history”. Harpers Bazaar.com writes;”if you are still unsure about what camp fashion is , allow Lady Gaga to show you how it’s done”!

We are all familiar with Gaga’s extravagant style or excesses; the unforgettable infamous ‘meatdress ‘ in 2010, at the MTV video awards that irked not only vegetarians but shocked thousands worldwide. In 2011 she made a spectacular entrance carried shoulder high, inside a ‘giant egg ‘ along the red carpet. She definitely makes great contributions to history. Before all of this striking caricature portrayals, I have loved all her music; the originality, energy and vibe is infectious. ‘Poker face , ‘Just dance‘ and ‘born this way‘ are my favorites. I admire her strong personality and courageous spirit in face of adversity. Her ability to try new stuff like acting, and not giving up on romance is remarkable. Gaga deserved the nomination in a Star is Born; what a compelling delivery. However, (bet you saw that coming), as much as I applaud Gagas bold sense of innovative approach, and originality , I draw a line on poor or lack of judgement! Without bias I will score an individual big when they apply some elements of sensitivity, dignity, and, morality in their lifestyle choices. can you apply all of those elements and still be popular, sexy and rule the red carpet? sure you can, Demi did it, Ciara did, JLO, Jenner sisters, Naomi Campbell and hundreds of others did.

Being a celebrity, or someone with a significant office comes with a high level of responsibility. There are those who love you and what you represent, then there are those who are pretentious and will edge you on, not telling the whole truth, because they stand to gain. And then, their are the neutrals who just want whats best for every one. sometimes, it may seem as if your life is no longer yours. Everyone has something to say, especially the unsolicited advise or critics. It naturally comes with the territory .one must learn to walk elegantly , with dignity while wearing his or her crown even when it pinches. By no means must you allow your extremities multiply , be seen or interpreted as cool by your younger fans, who see you as mainly a role model, absolutely adore , and want to emulate you. Imitation is said to be best form of a compliment.

KIM KADARSHIAN- Stunning in this risque’ ensemble.

Suggestively, interpreting the notes on fashion. I must admit she looks quite striking ,and well proportioned in that costume designed by Thierry Mugler. I learnt it took eight whole months to make . So worth it! Almost like a chiseled sculpting. I love the elements of water droplets, very creatively done Kim.

GWYNETH- in pale yellow Chloe design 2019 MET Gala.

Apparently she wanted to go low key noticeable in this boring maxi dress, that did nothing for her fantastic skintone or, personality. In 2013 the talented actress went to the MET Gala in a fabulous , head-turning pink Valentino ball gown,but complained afterwards to USA today correspondent that she did not enjoy herself. “I ‘m never going again. It was so unfun,it was boiling. I did not enjoy at all.”

A hollywoodgossip commentator wrote afterwards “Sorry it was so hot Gwyneth!”He wondered why she would “whine about a prestigious event with free food, free alcohol and beautiful clothing at one of country’s most famous museums”! Well I certainly side with Gwyneth, understanding how easily ones statement can become twisted or misrepresented by some. she probably didn’t mean it the way it was interpreted . People must not be too fast to jump into conclusions! it does now explain why she decided to tone it down this year doesn’t it. That’s why we should never say never.It comes back and bites one in the butt! Gwyneth in my assessment is a Hollywood diva who has earned her stripes; all she was dishing was her honest feedback, which would serve the Museum well to take into consideration for future planning. You can’t enjoy yourself if, a place is too cold or hot. For your information, the event isn’t free, the guests have to pay for tickets.This year was a whooping $30,000 each.

Gwyneth before photo in 2013 MET GALA -In fabulous Pink Valentino .

Darren Criss – (who played Andrew Cunanan in The assassination of Gianni Versace -he won an Emmy for that role) looks very charming and, confident in this inspiring embroidered , jeweled costume.

There were so many inspiring designs and, lovely people , but I am unable to feature every one. I however, want to use this medium to applaud all the hosts and everyone who worked tirelessly to ensure that the theme Camp: notes on fashion, was translated in a seamless manner that also honors the memory of the essayist Susan Sontag .


Remember, Your Image Is Everything , So Live excellently!

MET GALA 2019 -Camp: Notes on Fashion- The Outstanding 12 Best Dressed.

There were hundreds of famous well dressed individuals, and couples in fabulous costumes at the Prestigious MET GALA. It was very tough to narrow down to twelve. Regardless of whether or not they wore modernist, classic, timeless, vintage , avant garde or renaissance ,the age of style did not affect this decisions. These are the exclusive ones who in my honest opinion, which of course, may vary from general popular views, are the ones that slayed and, definitely rocked in their designer ensembles on May 6, 2019 ,at the metropolitan of Art, New York, NY. The three compelling factors I used as criteria are:

Evocativeness ; Is it compelling, sustaining and, arresting our attention or arousing curiosity? And is it memorable?

Creativity; the extent of thought and time put into it. Did the colors work fine together on the personality ? was it exquisitely bold, garish, dull or just bland?

Comfortability; did the individual or couple look awkward or comfortable in their choice ? did the walking or strutting on the Red Carpet seem cumbersome or effortless?

# 1 Jennifer Lopez-JLO and Her fiance’ Alex Rodriguez-A-Rod

This beautiful couple wins my #1 vote for not just meeting and surpassing criteria above, but for the time, efforts and WORK invested . All you have to do is, go to you tube to watch a video where A-Rod described it in his own words, right in front of a camera. He narrates the ordeal they (mostly him) went through by omission of food for 24 hours, strict diet, vigorous exercises, running in Central Park so he can fit into the handsome pink Versace size 44 Tuxedo. (He originally wears a size 48)!

I was required to loose 6.5 Lbs no carbs, no sugar, yoga day and night. I used to exercise for big games against Red Sox, now I exercise not to look fat at the MET Ball”!

Three days to the Gala, he checked in on the video report saying: “I have this pink tuxedo Jennifer and Versace is making me wear, I can’t eat, I have to drink lots of water and tea. I’m starving but I can’t eat.” He lamented that he had not had his favorite steak in four days, which made him ”angry”. “I looked at myself last Sunday night baseball……..I looked like I got hit, ran over by an 18 wheeler”!

You can tell though that the couple is in love, and , he would do anything to please his famous fiancee’. But I wondered if, he pushed himself way too much. It sure doesn’t sound much like fun to me, the whole prep thing. And for the record, as long as you are healthy, remember, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes; being slimmer has advantages, however, loosing extra lbs should not be done in extreme manner, unless of course your health depends on it, and you have expert medical supervision, then, by all means.

A-Rod however had a plan to binge after the event; “we are going to the hood, there’s this great place with the best Pizza and , I am gonna eat an entire box.! ” I was hoping he’d say four boxes of pizza, even I, can eat a whole box! I think, Lol. Unfortunately that plan fell through! After the event, he was so tired that, all he wanted was sleep. “my bed is calling me right now,” he told a reporter. No surprises there. Hunger would definitely do that to you. But they achieved their main purpose I guess. Both looked tres’ magnifique!.I wonder if A-Rod plans to keep the 6.5 lbs off long term!

The Pressure To Look Thinner on The Red Carpet

According to A-Rod, 69 people all together teamed up to achieve the wining look on day of event. 14 people worked on JLO’s hair style! He said, she did not need it, “if she needs a wig, I need a Mask ” he teased. JLO stood out in her beautiful versace, plunging vicariously in front .Her back cut low, a long thigh-high side slit showed off her toned legs. Nesting on her neck, was a prestigious Harry Winston jewelry. JLO dripped with iridescence, from head to toe. In her 6 inch high-heels, everything dazzled!. Her Knight in shinning pink of whom she recently engaged, also shone but it cost him more than the prize of his pink suit.

#2 Cara Delevingne -Sheer ARTitude!

The colorful stripes was delightful. Cara in Dior Haute Couture looked spectacular in her rainbow ensemble from 2019 Dior spring collection. The English model and actress represented the essence of the theme to the T! Artsy and tastefully executed. I loved it.

# 3 Demi Moore-An Angel in Black.

The american actress is stunning in a plunging fitted, long black gown. At 56 , she flaunts, because she’s got it all; the figure, boldness, stride,talent, beauty, and the ‘It’ factor.

#4 Ciara-The Green Goddess!

She looked fierce and fiery , a goddess trailing in sparking , feathery emerald green. With that fantastic athletic figure and ,a standout huge fro- hair , she was a real diva working the red carpet as only a Pro can! Guess what? The 33 year old ,Grammy nominated artist, mother of two, married to Seattle Seahawks Quarterback Russell Wilson absolutely nailed it.

# 5 Janelle Monae’Uncompromisingly flamboyant.

The american singer, songwriter and, rapper arrived in impressive bold color blocks, black, white, pink and red lips. She boldly incorporates the artifice, resonating the theme of this year’s event Camp: Notes of fashion in an unforgettable and , very stylish form. The eye popping look was a mechanical work of act that fluttered mischievously. And you have to be blind to miss the body part where it’s strategically placed. She topped it off, with a delicate pile of hats , made by milliner Sarah Sokol. I learnt she later switched to a simpler number for the “after parties”.

#6 The Couple Gabrielle Union and Duane Wade-OUTSTANDING

This two sure know how to make an entrance, with their warm personality and love of the limelight, his court side showmanship and, maneuvers and, Gabrielle’s modelling advantage, it was easy to standout.In this sparkling diamond crusted ensembles ; capes ‘n’ all, they looked very attractive like dark knights in shimmering armor, and who can miss her sexy leather gloves. Gabby seem to have eyes only for her man , as they enjoyed their evening out without their children. who can blame her.

#7 Seth Meyers and his wife Alexi Ashe looked refreshingly charming.The red sash, gives a royal touch.

#8 Gwen Stefani-No Doubt about it-She Reigns

The 49 year singer -songwriter is in a long fur cape Moschino ,sparkling embellished body suit, jewelry and fish net . She sings :”Don’t speak, I know what you thinking”, but I bet she doesn’t really know we are only thinking ,” what a fabulous queen she really is” , in this sophisticated costume, which compliments her personality so well.

#9 Micheal B. Jordan -Conquers again!

The actor was looking dapper and suave in a black over -all Coach, delicately embellished, with sparkling accessories. His stand out Piaget watch was visible under the sleeve.

#10 Gemma Chan Elegance and Sophistication.

Style fit for a crowned Queen. Perhaps the reason isn’t far. Tom Ford was the designer behind this stunning ensemble. The head piece, choice of sparkling metallic silver, and the fitting was elegantly executed on the Crazy Rich Asian Star. Definitely on the winning Camp.

#11. ZendayaBewitching in Flawless Cinderella ball gown. by Tommy Hilfiger. Her stylist helped her transition into the role by playing the fairy god parent , Law Roach was waving a magic wand consistently, as she worked the room. To add to the intriguing story line, Zedaya left one of her shoes on the steps, at the MET gala.

# 12 Katie Perry- american pop singer brings in the FIREWORKS

As a successful best selling artist, and currently one of the american Idol judges, she is idolized by fans worldwide and used to having all eyes on her. Katy arrived in this three -layered candlesticks, chandelier costume ,to the 2019 MET gala. Because, it must have been cumbersome to pull off, she’s my 12th pick. However, this 13th times Grammy awards winner, has mastered the act of ruling the Red Carpet for a long time, as such, requires no help in navigating the territories. And, despite being worth over $330 million, Katy remains a humble and, childlike spirit. She never ceases to amaze her fans, who absolutely love her creativity and, other talents. A fun personality , with innovative fashion sense; often dying her hair in intense colors: green, purple , pink and, Lavender.


Remember Your Image Is Everything , So live Excellently!

Mothers Day 2019! Here’s a Chance To Show That Special Someone Real Appreciation .

According to the national retail federation, Americans will spend and average $162.94 on mothers day this year, 2019. In comparison to last years $168.94. Previous estimates over the last five years has also been in same range up to $172.63. It is arguably one of the biggest retail boosting seasons, next to Thanksgiving. A lot of other businesses see significant increase in income during this time. This includes ; restaurants , car dealerships, Jewelry businesses, Spas and Massage Parlors, Florists, Chocolates, and I am sure airline industries, take advantage of the financial upsurge that Mothers Day presents. Don’t forget Gift cards Companies like Amex and Visa.!

This year the prediction is that, 84% adults will be out treating the special moms in their lives and, it’s estimated to reach a whooping $25 billion! A record in comparison to past years. In 2018 Americans spent a total $23.1 billions , just as impressive. mind blowing actually!. That’s a lot of love sharing!

I know the Malls can often be intimidating , especially to the male shoppers, who just want to get what they came for ,and, leave quickly , no fuss no delays. Unlike females , most of us ( some swear they detests shopping) like to linger and, fantasize about our discoveries. And with the avalanche of new competitive merchandise daily , combined with aggressive marketing strategies or sales commissioned associates , navigating could often be quite a challenge ,even overwhelming!. So here are some helpful tips to make your shopping more fun and stress free. Also remember to read my separate review on 25 irresistible awesome fragrances for perfume gift ideas.

When a fun survey was done many years ago, they ask women what # 1 item they will most prefer to have if, they happen to get stranded in a deserted Island.Over 60% choose Moisturizer!.There was of course some who wanted chocolate, lipstick and other beauty products. (but no mention of the hubby , though the survey did not mention either, how long you’d be stranded for!)

Bobbi Brown customer Joleen was invited by beauty advisor Christy ten years ago, ever since, she hasn’t looked back. what was the special connection? Christy seems to know exactly what works for her clients.

Below she applied the peony powder and mainsqueeze crushed lip .

Here’s an idea! You can create your own ” Goody Bag” filled with some of these beautiful delightful products. After all, no one knows the special woman in your life more than you do! So put a personal touch on it. She will notice too.

Below is, according to industry testimonials, a bestselling brand OLEHENRIKSEN that I discovered while reviewing brands at SEPHORA. Ole Henriksen is a Danish skin cosmetician and, manufacturer of award winning skincare products sort after by high profile celebs. He currently resides in the united states, and operates a spa/skincare clinic. I am confident you can find these products also in other department stores. my favorite is the orange because it has a fusion of vitamin C and skin brighteners. The products are easier to differentiate for all skin types based on color of boxes. The Pink and Blue boxes will be more beneficial for sensitive and drier skins. Oily should stick to green boxes -the one for balance control. but If in doubt, please ask a sales specialist. I recommend you let mom try the Banana bright eye creme which contains collagen and vitamin C for radiant , smooth eyes. It retails at $38. Moms love creams that will help reduce appearance of dark circles, puffiness or wrinkles.

Purchase the Transform collection, for less than a$100 ; includes the alpha hydroxy (AHA) and Beta Hydroxy powerful exfoliants and moisturizer that produces smooth even skin. For $55 you could add the Good night glow creme containing retin -A helps minimize dark spots and discolorations.You can also include the Truth serum to her “Goody bag” and perhaps a nice bottle of her favorite fragrance and you are set, with plenty of time to chill.

Spoil mom with this rich NURTURE ME set for a luxurious feel.

The Green OLEHENRIKSEN is for oily skins.You can balance it all from cleanser, toner that has acne fighting, and Pore reducing salicylic acids and AHA. There is a clarifying mask which rids excess sebum with aid of special clay, snow and lotus extract. Add the green fusion complex neem seed oil before moisturizer for best results.

RIHANNA’s BEAUTY LINE FENTY has some fabulous vibrant selections in make-up for the modern, ageless mom who likes to look Smoking Hot! I can totally see any of the real housewives of any city looking va va voom in any of the FENTY Killawatt foil highlighters, in a range of beautiful frost -inspired shades!. Spring has sprung and summer is peeping, there’s no better time to get the Sun Stalk’R instant warmth bronzers in compact. A custom set of Bronzer and Sculpting brush is sold at $64. However each compact retails single at $30. Also, any of the Body Lava luminizer in pink , bronze, or gold will make a great goody bag stuffer.

Besides moisturizers, next bestie for women is the obsession with Lipstick, we are totally inseparable once we find the one, two or dozen,Lol. we just can’t get enough of our favorite brands and shades. I heard so much about Rihannas beauty line and checked it out at a local SEPHORA store. Absolutely love FENTY. What’s not to love, so eclectic, warm , inviting, just like its creator, innovative, promising and vibrant!. Not to forget sexy. The warmth bronzers, Pro Fitt’R instant concealer, Moroccan spice eye shadow, and so much more. But I specifically dig the Mattemoiselle plush lipsticks in intense hues; with very captivating names such as; ‘Spanked’-dusty rose color, Saw -C is exotic orange, P.M.S is a dark chocolate ‘, Flamingo Acid’ in bright berry, the color deep teal is an interesting one called Turks and Caicos. Wait till you see ‘Candy Venom’ in electric pink. I wish it came in fatter handle not the ultra slim, which makes It look so delicate, and may break easily ,if a lot of pressure is asserted. At $18 however, I think it’s worth giving that special mom a ‘midnight wasabi’ or an unforgettable evening in’ Turks and Caicos’.

Remember when you are purchasing any gifts to bare in mind the likes, taste, dislikes and personality type of the recipient. Do not impose your own taste or that of the commission sales associate. For instance in fragrance , find out first if she likes florals vs spicy, strong vs mild . In make-up , some women don’t particular like shimmers, others do. And maybe mom is a simple none make-up wearing type, last thing you want is make her over. she may assume that you think she’s dull or boring. So put some thought before you buy. Unless it’s what she specifically asks, stick to the things you are absolutely sure she’d love.

Lastly, be sure to ask for gift receipts, and don’t be offended if mom decides afterwards , to exchange your gifts for something of her own preference. As long as she is happy, it is a Win-Win for everyone.Have a wonderful Mothers day and be safe!.

Remember, Your Image Is Everything, So Live Excellently!.


Mothers day last minute shoppers, no need to panic! Here is a review of 25 irresistible, awesome fragrances.

Moms are irreplaceable, biological or otherwise. They should be celebrated every chance we get, not only on mothers day. Hence, I took the time to go out and about, to read up ,and compare notes with experts in the industry and get consumers feedback. Together with my own personal experiences of my favorite Parfums, here are my count down. I shall lead with fragrances that more youthful moms lean towards, followed by the ones more mature moms seem to enjoy most. But before the list, assuming for some reasons, you are unable to read till the very end, please take note of this important tip; If it has the following notes whether Top, Heart, or Base, it will smell appealing to Mom:’Patchouli’,’Jasmine’,’Sandalwood’,all Musks’, ‘Rose’,Peony’,’Bergamot’, and ‘Mandarin.’Now you are good to go.

Remember fragrances blends with individual body chemistry, so what works well for A , will not be exact on B.If you follow these suggestions and mom is happy please share the experience later with us. If Mom is not happy, perhaps it was due to bad traffic, crowded restaurant, gas irritation, or you got there pretty late. (Just kidding! we’ll love to read about it too.) which reminds me, for those dining out, please make reservations early, to avoid waiting on long lines.


If you want mom to give you a big hug on her special day, then arrive at the door with JOY, not just on your face , with the bottle by DIOR. This fragrance is unabashedly sultry, feminine, and its mixed florals gives a crisp clean freshness. Other notes are bergamot, musk, rose, jasmine and sandalwood. Though new, you can find this easily and affordable too.Try Sephora, Ulta, Macy’s ,Nordstroms, Saks, or Neimans.


While doing my review at MACY’s, Atlanta, GA, I took a spritz on my wrist and exclaimed in excitement, it was a captivating rush to my senses and a definite love at first sight! light, fresh scent, flirty and has obvious agreeable notes : sweet pea, musk, and bergamot. I recommend for women of all age categories, but more for the modern young at heart.


Also by same designer CHOO. It is packaged in a light pink bottle, with a unique pink cap.Soft, caressing, far more spirited ,and definitely audacious, for women who are bold and sexy, kinda like what actress Kerry Washington of Scandal, or american songwriter Kelly Clarkson would wear.Top notes: bergamot (you guessed it), hibiscus flower (hibiscus is so versatile, I just recently had one as tea).The middle notes include; peony, nectarine,and the base ;musk and cedarwood.


The sophisticated designer is one of my favorite. I absolutely adore her taste in fashion, and style. I also love her classic 212.However, this is a groundbreaking fragrance, hidden in a mirage of sleek midnight blue glass, and tall thin gold heels ,from which flows the juices of GOOD and Evil.

Each Spritz releases an evocative ,and provocative element of the dual complexities in a woman’s nature; The naturally good, and the when I am so bad, I am Evil. I don’t have to spell which mom gets this gift, you already know! Tonka beans, almonds, tuberose and jasmine are some obvious notes.


This oriental scent evokes a seductive fusion of jasmine, centifoliarose, orchid, ballerina freesia and, a base of patchouli. So captivating, it’s easy to succumb in sweet surrender to this seductive scent. I should know , I wore it for years! You can find it wherever quality fragrances are sold.


There are four of them,(Tendre, Fraichae,Vive and Regular Chance.) my two favorites are CHANCE Eau Tendre -pink bottle and Eau Fraiche’ in green.The green is more citrus, minty and fruity, I lean more towards Tendre which has more woodsy, teakwood, jasmine and citron .Every mom will love this clean, fresh parfum because she can wear to work, around kids, running errands, practically any where ,because its not overpowering, and its reasonably priced.


If I am compelled to list only ten of my favorite parfums ever, PRADA -milano, the green bottle (les infusions de iris) will make the list. I live to wear that fragrance. But as you know, women need to take a break even from things they love. Just for a short while. I hope they never discontinue that fragrance! Candy is the Pink one and it is tropical, also fun, flirtatious, and ,just as seductive. The notes include caramel, vanilla, musk, and a tinge of orange. You can get a value set if you hurry, at Macy’s ,Saks Fifth Ave, Dillards, Nordstroms or at Sephora from $76.

L’ambre des merveilles eau de parfum BY HERMES’

For about $100 or less you can get a value size. There are several HERMES’ , I have yet to see any I did not like, but my favorite is the orange which I wore faithfully about 10 years back. Its alluring , lingering scent is not overwhelming, it’s a sophisticated brand and any mom will be impressed by this Perfume. I will play it safe and shop at Amazon, Saks, Neimans, or Nordstroms and perhaps ,Fragrance .net for this.

La Vie est Belle BY LANCOME

Translates to ‘ Life is beautiful’ in french. Has oriental twist of goumand, natural praline and iris notes. Also sweet patchouli and vanilla are key ingredients. I recommend this for any age Mom. Actress Julia Robert(Pretty woman) is a model and , representative for this fragrance. it’s in most malls and online stores.


Intoxicating fruits fusion and florals dazzle the olfactory senses! Wild berries, jasmine, vanilla, honeysuckle, amber, caramel and rose gives the gardenia allure. Base has sandalwood and praline. Also comes in travel size,.Be careful, there are many Juicys out there; OUI, Gold and Couture Couture. But I recommend the popular Viva la juicy in gold-ish bottle.Try Sephora, Ulta, Macys’,Nordstroms, Dillards, Amazon, or Fragrance Net.


Fresh, Floral and ,flirtatious are some words to describe this parfum. New to me, but once I got a wimff, I was sold. Pear, freesia, patchouli, basil and mandarin, are some intrinsic notes. It emanates a sensual , earthy note fusing with jasmine, rose, blush suede, red apple, and peony. For the modern mom, youthful at heart. You can purchase at Sephora or Macy’s.


Another winner! Has been here for quite a while, a classic by all standards. If your mom or the woman in your life loves lightweight florals, feminine sweet and spicy fragrances, this is it! It has warm oak moss, peony,rose, freesia, magnolia, and mirabelle plum notes. Contained in a rosy beige bottle it looks presentable. Look for the original in square shape, with vertical lines running down the glass.


This is a popular one, unless you are not a fragrance lover. The sparkling fusion of floral and fruits agrees with most womens body chemistry, it’s a great one to wear to work because its light and fresh, yet smells appealing. In a meeting for instance ,it won’t be offensively strong. Plus, it wears long. Fresh Cedar, jasmine, bamboo, white rose , musk, cederwood and amber are some distinct notes.


The Pink bottle consistently has rave reviews . An international bestseller. I have been privileged to wear this, and its very pleasurable and intoxicating. Makes you feel ultra feminine and sophisticated. The bottle is beautifully designed , even when empty, you hate to part with it. Find it at Macy’s, Sephora, Amazon or Fragrance NET.com.

Coco Mademoiselle eau de Parfum BY CHANEL

Timeless! A classic; one that has been a standard for years, loved by millions of women all over the world. Can be worn year round. High breed sophistication. Coco intense is for the charismatic, elegant woman. Newly reformulated, more florals,citrus-Peach rose,jasmine blend. Patchouli is of course , still a contending note. one or two spritz last whole day or evening. Splurge on this beauty. Sells between $115-225.00.(1.7oz/3.4oz) While looking at this, also sample Miss Dior, also by CHANEL, at Macy’s, Nordstroms, Neimans, Amazon or CHANEL.com


Released in 1996 by perfumer Jacques presents another timeless CHANEL fragrance. One of my many favorites. Has all three “S”; seductive, sweet and spicy. Plus, it is long lasting. I love to wear it to sleep after an evening shower for sweet dreams.$135-$258


Seductive opulence; strong, sexy and powerful notes. It can be intoxicating, probably too strong for younger moms. This beauty is for the experienced mature woman who has earned her stripes! It exudes high energy, and can be addictive once you start to wear. Top notes are coffee bean, jasmine and vanilla. A review on this from google express reads: “I was lucky to receive a 90ml size bottle of Black Opium as a gift for mothers day finally! It was well worth the wait and lives up to the hype and expectations”!.

L” eau d’issey BY ISSEY MIYAKE

Delicate Rose, lotus, pure lily, peony creates fresh clean floral scent. For the sensitive, gentile soul, who walks the earth as though butter won’t melt in her tongue. Also a good honeymoon stash. $105 ,and usually sets come with gifts with purchase.


And you wonder why women are unpredictable? This is one designer who knows the workings of a womans’ body and mind. His range is limitless, Givenchy has managed to capture the Spirit of the woman over the years!. He creates absolutely fabulous timeless pieces, with great thought process; clothing, purses and unforgettable fragrances. With remarkable fragrances as these, who needs logic? L’Interdit devys modern convention. it’s recreated from the 1957 version.You can catch notes of bergamot, amber in this relaxing scent.$116.00, Most reviewers gave it 5 stars. One customer observed that it doesn’t last long, but majority loves it.


The list will be incomplete without one of my very best parfums. This is the one I got the most compliments for , especially from other women. That speaks volumes! The shooting star-shaped blue bottle is refillable. Notes includes: madarin, orange, bergamot, melon coconut, and cassia. Heart notes are apricot, blackberry, plum, lily of the valley and rose.Base has patchouli, musk, wait for it, dark chocolate ,vanilla and caramel.Delicious.!

COACH New York

Forget this one , and I’ll be banned for sure, from re- entering the sex in the city fashion trailblazing city of New York. phew!! Coach is for the futuristic, upwardly, mobile mom. I can totally see Gabrielle Union -Wade wearing this , or actress Jennifer Garner. The sexy, alluring, dreamily soft florals fuses with citrus, rose tea, jasmine and peppercorn in radiating effervescence. Dry down notes are woody , patchouli and musk.


Fresh scent, I received one as a gift for 2018 Christmas, and just finished the bottle. I loved it. To me ,it’s more like a springy or summery fragrance because of its lightweight, sweet breezy florals. so sweet eau de toilette 3.3oz $104


SI means Yes . Say Yes to this intriguing, sexy fragrance by another expert designer in all things beautiful. I said Yes to this parfum the very first time I laid my eyes on it! I felt lightheaded and giddy with excitement from the first wimff. It is one of the perfumes I am using presently, another Christmas gift from a lovely friend. I recommend it for the woman who is Stylish ,Charming and Confident.Top notes: Black currant, orange blossom, and base vanilla.others; mandarin oil, amber, musk and patchouli.


The spell was cast 66 years ago. (1953). This phantom of youth was created first, as sweet smelling oil that captures, and traps youthful glow in a magical bottle .It was an immediate bestseller. Women worldwide did not wait for that special man to purchase as gifts, they ensured there was always a back up. later reformulated to parfum, the magic lingers still! Great job Estee Lauder for preserving this heritage of excellence.Rich spices, precious woods includes; geranium ,amber, moss,vetiver,sandalwood and rose. It scores 5 out of 5 stars 100% in reviews. But be careful not to spray directly on clothing, especially light colors. Though it’s called Youth Dew, the younger mom may wrinkle her nose at this. best to gift this to a much more senior or mature Lady. Relatively affordable at $40. However, some imitations are circulating, so be sure to get yours from a reliable company like Macy’s, Belk, Nordstroms , Walmart, or Neimans.


What a journey! I hope it was as enjoyable for you as it was for me….I leave you for now, with the 25th fragrance, definitely not least but actually saved on purpose due to the romantic story attached to it.

This fragrance has deep, complex notes: sandalwood,jasmine, lemon, tonka bean, leather, frankincense, iris , Peru balsam ,amber and ,bergamot!

SHALIMAR was launched in 1925 , created by JACQUES GUERLAIN as a tribute to Emperor SHAH JAHAN and,wife MUNTAZ MAHAL. Inspired by the true life love story of how PRINCE KHURRAM (who became EMPEROR SHAH JAHAN ) met and fell deeply in love with the young lady ARJUMAND at a bazaar where she worked with her family., Taken by her beauty and innocence, he vowed to make her his Queen. And so it happened. They had 13 children, the marriage had its ups and downs, but it was true love no doubt. Unfortunately,the Queen died giving birth to the 14th child at a young age of 39 years. Distraught by his great loss, the emperor built the famous TAJ MAHAL as a memorial for his ” Jewel of inestimable value’.In that magnificent edifice he created the Garden of Shalimar, a favorite relaxation place for the Queen.’

“You always Gain By Giving Love -Reese Witherspoon

Remember Your Image Matters, So live excellently!

More Memorable Highlights From The 2019 50th NAACP Image Awards, Dolby Theater, LA.

Asians are much more than stereotypes

He came in firing spirits, excited, and acknowledging the fact that; “this year, the entertainment industry is moving a step in the right direction,by letting the world know that representation matters in all cultures.”

His name is Jimmy O.Yang, American Actor and Comedian.

I am more than honored to be a part of a movie that shows Asians are more than a stereotypical restaurant owner, or thank you, thank you,(referring to the applause) or like an Ernst Young accountant or something. We are kick- Ass without Kung fu too. thank You. We are just as funny, just as cool, and, just as sexy as anyone”.

Yang presented at the 2019, 50th NAACP Image awards ,introducing the Outstanding motion picture for Crazy Rich Asians ,saying “its one I am extremely proud of’.However , the Asians may have come out’ Cool, Sexy and, Rich, it appears the Black Power eclipse was too powerful and irresistible for the fans, since Black Panther carted the win for that category this time.

To Tai Beauchamp’s question on: ” how does diversity and entertainment make our community stronger?’, The actor known for his character Jian Yang in HBO comedy series Silicon valley had this to say: “I think diversity ,and entertainment ,allows us to learn about each others culture, and really celebrate each others uniqueness, in the most positive light”.

Honorable Congress woman Maxine water

“I have the Gavel and I am not afraid to use it!”

‘Fierce,’ ‘Passionate’, ‘Powerful’, ‘Champion of change’ are some of the incredible words used to describe the the first woman to chair and first African American, the House financial services committee.

Looking absolutely dazzling in a shimmering, long beige dress, she seem to be loving all the attention and, glamour of the evening. constantly beaming at cameras, videographers, and laughing at all the jokes including, the subtle humorous references from Comedian host, Anthony Anderson.

Congresswoman used the opportunity to share her accomplishments as House Chair, “ I passed a comprehensive bill for $13.27 billion in new funding for emergency relief and to end homelessness in America; don’t despair, I have the gavel and I am not afraid to use it”!.

Rep.Maxine Waters also had warnings for operators of fraudulent loans practices, including Title loans, and student loan sharks,”we know who you are”she said. It’s a new day in America; women, people of color, LGBTQ, the millennials are growing in power and influence and representation.It is a testament to the Committee.We have the Gavel and We are not afraid to use it!”

To institutions that have for a long time “historically overlooked women and minorities, the jig is up!”

Concerning her “Haters”, she sent this no-nonsense warning: “I have gotten 4 of them convicted, if you come for me, I am coming for You!

She also reminded the audience,”Now ok, ok, I have not forgotten about ’45’, I still think he needs to be impeached”.I have the Gavel and Subpoena Power, and, I am not afraid to use it.(And of course, she had the whole crowd reciting the last assertion.I have the gavel and I am not afraid to use it).

Truly a remarkable woman.

Positively a one of a kind star and inspiration.

That was how the announcer described NE-YO as his career achievements was being highlighted at the 50th NAACP Image awards.

American Actor and comedian Alan David Grier introduced and, presented NE-YO the First Positively Golden awards, sponsored by McDonald. Alan shared one of the reasons why he admires the younger actor:

“I can’t think of a better recipient for this award. I got to know NE-YO and learned from him, when I played the cowardly lion and he ,the ‘Tin-Man’ in the WIZ live. Now, think about this; NE-YO, the man with the biggest heart I know, convincingly playing a character without a Heart at all, now that is acting!”.

The 39 years old, whose innovative and musical ingenuity, enabled him to pen winning songs for super stars like Mario, Rihanna and Beyonce’ has 14 Grammy nominations, with three wins! His accomplishments however, goes far beyond his music or acting career; NE-YO is also a humanitarian, whose mentoring spirit is evident in his non-profit and charitable ventures. Such as, the Smith foundation which benefits children in foster care or group homes. He does have affiliation too with the Disney Dream Academy . “Its time for new visions to be seen and new voices to be heard,”‘he once said. Another vital charitable act close to his heart is, the Holberton school , an education program set up to motivate students of color to explore opportunities in learning and application of software, and technology.

NE-YO came up stage with his lovely looking three kids (the fourth was being looked after backstage by NE-YO’S mom).”As you all can see, I have my hands full so, I am going to keep this short.I thank the NAACP for the prestigious award ,I thank the Image awards and McDonald. I started doing music as an outlet for all my pent up emotions as a kid, my mom she’s backstage with my youngest child’ Ro-Ro,’ I wanted her to be out here, but she said her feet hurt, when a Black woman says to you her feet hurt…. you, let that go. But, she is the reason why I am standing right here today. Because, she was the first person to put a pen and pad in my hands, and said write it down. I don’t care what it is, just write it down, don’t bottle it up,’cos that’s how people get hurt.That’s how things go bad. Um, I brought these guys up here to show you the reason why I do what I do. It used to be because of my love for the music,but now, I am doing it for them.”He gestures towards his kids.

I appreciate the honor, and I am going to continue doing what I do, and inspire these.And maybe one of these days, one of these will be up here accepting an award next time”.

All Hail The Crown King Of WAKANDALAND- Outstanding Actor in Motion

If he seems familiar, that is likely because of the fact that, before the Disney adaptation movie Black Panther, Boseman has done many great works. Best remembered for his acting in biography film ’42’ where he portrayed Jackie Robinson (2013 ) and ,as James Brown in Get on up, another biography film.(2014),and , Thurgood Marshall (2017)

However, sources claimed that the amiable actor did not have to audition for the role of T’Challa in the superhero marvel adaptation of Black Panther. Seems he possess a good dose of one of the main qualities all kings have in common-confidence! Boseman merely sold his skills to the creators on how he intended to role play as the chosen heir to the kingdom of Wakanda. He got the chance and, he did not disappoint. If you have it, sell it, I will say.

Accepting the honor he said; “They say black people always thank God when they receive an award, and I am not going to disappoint you. I thank God not only for the winning times but ,for the tribulations we go through so we can appreciate the Joys of Winning like this”.He went on to acknowledge the NAACP, amazing cast members ,and fellow actors nominated in same category including, Denzel Washington , and Steven James.

Boseman is a pacesetter, the first Black actor to play a leading role in a superhero movie, a definite nodge towards Black Children all over the world, to dream big, If not aspire for the position of president , why not a superhero.

TOM JOYNER TUSKEGEE – Finest Honored with the Prestigious Vanguard award

He is a famous American Host of the nationally syndicated radio show TJSM, and founder REACH MEDIA, and other Programming initiatives that affords diverse academic opportunities through Grants ,and ,Scholarships for Students. The 69 year old TUSKEGEE , AL native recounts history on how the struggle was real, before the Media, or social media exploded:

“We were protesting , we had protest matches every Saturday. I am here to tell you that some of the best sandwiches were found at those protests matches. Back then in this mostly all black town, there wasn’t even a radio station that played black music. There was no Aretha Franklin, so we would gather every Saturday in this neighborhood to make our voices heard.”

Then one day, the owner of the radio station , who also owned a Ford dealership where they matched consistently every Saturday, having had enough, approached the protesters with a tempting offer: “he said, I don’t need this here, I will let you have a show every Saturday afternoon for one hour, and you can play Aretha and, any other songs, but he wanted to know who will do it? And the hand without a sandwich went up, I said I will do it,and that’s how the show started. TJMS is now 25 years old and at the end of this year I will be retiring from radio. But, the Tom Joyner foundation will go on helping students in college.”

You will most definitely be missed from Radio, Big Tom.

MARSAI MARTIN -Little Teen with a Big Heart

At 14, the Black-ish star child who plays genius daughter Diane in the ABC sitcom achievements cannot be described as Little ,especially ,when combining her success not only from small screen T.V sitcoms, but also from the big screens. Marsai is reportedly ,the youngest executive film producer in Film history in Hollywood. she spoke briefly of the making of her 2019 movie ‘Little’, which happens to be a re- modification of TOM Hanks movie ‘Big’.

“After seeing Big, I liked it, but that’s when I started thinking, what if we do this with a modern perspective? “Turns out that her thinking paid off big time. “we gave it a fresh take, and move it to modern time in a female environment.” said the real life genius. Well done Marsai Martins for being a great role model to teenagers and showing all , including grown ups, the power of thinking and doing.

Millicent Olaghere Blast

Remember,Your Image is everything , So Live excellently.!

Memorable Highlights of the 2019 50th NAACP Image awards, Dolby Theater, LA.

IF you missed the entire or part of the 50th NAACP awards transmitted live on T.V one March 30th, 2019, relax we have all the exciting details plus more. It was indeed an Outstanding night in honor of Black Cultural Excellence in diverse categories.

The List of nominees and big winners were extensive. It was a star studded Red carpet event celebrating big names such as; Queen of R&B Beyonce and rapper husband Jay-Z, the entire Black Panther Cast led by director Ryan Coogler, actors; Chadwick Boseman, Michael B.Jordan, Letitia wright, Lupita Nyong’o. Others include the Black-ish cast led by the returning host of NAACP Image awards, Anthony Anderson, his onscreen wife Tracee Ellis Ross, Yara Shahidi,Marcus Scribner, and Marsai Martins.

Regina King looked incredibly beautiful in her shimmery long evening gown, and so did the honorable congress woman Maxine Walters, Sanaa lathan (Nappily after ),Thandie Newton,(pursuit of Happiness) ,Viola Davis(how to get away with murder), Kerry Washington(Scandal) and, Malinda Williams(Thin line between love and hate).

The legendary John Legend was very dashing in a fitted sharp suit,and so was the comedian Trevor Noah ,charming, incredibly funny host of the The daily show and comedian Chris Rocks. Actor Mike Epps(The Trap and Friday) , and yeah, Vin diesel was also present.

TRACEE ELLIS ROSSwinner Outstanding Female actor in a comedy series for her acting as Dr.Rainbow ‘Bo’ Johnson.(Black-ish).In her role in the ABC sitcom, Ross successfully juggles her career as a doctor , wife and co-parent of five kids, managing to keep it all afloat with T.V husband Anthony Anderson whom she seems to enjoy a good onscreen chemistry.

I will tell her to be patient

The former ‘Girlfriend’ actress was looking tres’ flair-buoyant in an ultra fluffy , feathery black and white ensemble which I liked for it’s one-of -a-kind ingenuity. She acknowledged that fact, as she came up to accept her award:”yeah I wore a little something, I come upon it actually.”she laughed, and thanked the NAACP and ABC remarking ‘ small screens has big power.’

Ross reminisced as a younger actress when she received her very first NAACP nomination for her acting in Girlfriend, but didn’t win; ‘I was devastated for days. Now, if I could tell that young girl today, I will tell her, this will be happening many times over, I would have told her to be patient.”

Then she informed the audience that it was her Superstar mom’s birthday.”My mother just had her 75th birthday ! she paused as she suddenly got all choked in the sensitive moment.”I was there but,I could not get emotional. But I am my mom’s baby, she’s so much the reason I am standing here , not just as Diana Ross’s daughter, but, as my mom.I am so grateful for the pathway she made for me and many of us.”

ANTHONY ANDERSON- winner Outstanding male actor in a comedy series for his role as Dre Johnson.(Black-ish).Not new to the NAACP , the funny comedian returned to Host the 2019 50th NAACP Image award, definitely a crowd pleaser, Anderson had his bag full of jokes and carried the audience along quite well.

FULL house to the Big house

some of his ribs cracking moments is when he made a jab at Lori Laughlin(Rebecca in the 1990’s sit com,Full House)who is potentially facing a hard prison time for allegedly paying out thousands of dollars to secure her daughter into a college of choice.

Aunty Becky is going from the full house to the big house , that’s a hell different kind of gated community”he joked.

Anderson also went for Kanye Wests jugular when he said this (with the infamous white house visit picture in over view); “he is the first artist whose music is played at a cook out that he is not invited to”! Oouch!! That elicited a lot of LOL’s though, and some sucked- in breaths.

Now to the serious business of winning, Anderson dedicated his win to his Mother-Doris Hancox who was present to accept it as he literally handed over the trophy. Reverting to some straight face serious matter of his mom’s sacrifice, he told the audience that everything he achieved ” is due to her sacrificing her own love for acting, giving up her own desire to become an actress and encouraging me instead to pursue my acting dreams.”Mom was of course beaming with pride.”everything he said is true’ she added.

Black-ish For the win -Outstanding Comedy series award.

No colorism here.

They beat the other nominees in same category ;Atlanta(FX network), Dear white people,(Netflix) Insecure(HBO) Grown-ish (Freeform) The ABC sit com Black-ish cast brought drama on stage as they try to beat the 27 seconds left on the clock , Marsai Martin was chosen to lead the acknowledgements, she thanked the NAACP , and the fans for their recognition and constant support.

When it came to Marcus Scribner’s turn, It was impossible to decipher the 19 year old response to his on screen Dads statement; “okay, let the white People talk”. I wonder, was Scribner being equally sarcastic or was he just speaking straight talk as he replied; “we will not stand for this colorism Anthony”.Lol! Who knows how to decode Teenagers. Scribner was however all smiles and calm as he went on to thank “the NAACP and our amazing cast”.

CHRIS ROCK Comedian and Actor -Presenter of the Outstanding Comedy series award.(Black-ish)

U is for Respect!

Rock was his witty old self as he came up to make his presentation speech,”they told me no Jussie Smollett jokes”, the crowd roared , “yeah, I know, but what a waste of light skin.do you know what I could do with that light skin?that curly hair?my career would be out of here!I would be running Hollywood.”There was more outburst of laughs.”what the hell was he thinking?”Rock continued his Smollett bashing,then as if sending the empire actor a message he said”You know Jessie, from now on you don’t even get a ‘U’.that U was for respect, you ain’t getting no respect from me anymore”.

Yara shahidi the 19 year old who plays Zoey , the first child of the Johnson family and, star of sitcom spin off Grown-ish ( where she went to college and we watch as she navigate and plots her survival strategy ), came to Smollett defense the minute she got a chance as the cast of Blackish were called up to receive Outstanding Comedy series award. “I stand with Jussie And, we don’t integrate we re-create!”, the Grown-ish actress added.

SHAWN CARTER aka JAY-Z American Rapper, Hip-Hop Artist, Retailer Mogul, Wins Prestigious President’s award , While BEYONCE Takes Home The Entertainment Trophy .

It’s A Win-Win For the CARTERS!

They need no introduction. One of American’s favorite couples loved all over the world for their entertaining music, Life style, fashion, and Philanthropy. Beyoncé and JAY Z make a formidable pair. JAY Z Music, his chains of luxury sports bar(40/40club) Roca Wear fashion ,entertainment company ROC Nation, multi million dollars corporations and other business collaborations reportedly puts him in an earning of $900million!

He was honored with the Presidents (NAACP President ) awards for “Exemplary public service”,The rap Icon was also lauded for being forefront in promoting activities ; as a change agent through innovative strategies and initiatives geared towards peace, and positive reinforcement in the community. He was praised for his alliance with REFORM which he co-founded to highlight injustice, unfair treatment of Blacks, Latinos and ,other minorities in general. For highlighting and address issues of sensitive matters like Parole and Probation.

The Indefatigable Beyoncé has from the onset carved for herself an independent niche’ in the music industry and, entrepreneurship. The Queen B, has Soul and Clout .Beyoncé has breasted against all odds and competitions ,to win in her credits 23 awards including Grammy, BET, NAACP, MTV and still counting. She was Awarded THE ENTERTAINMENT OF THE YEAR .This includes 63 nominations.! Some of her popular hits includes ‘All the single ladies, You put my love on top(finally)And the recent 2018 husband and wife collaboration; ‘ Everything is Love ,which won 2019 Grammy for best urban contemporary album.

In nearly three decades of honing their crafts ,individually as singles and later as a couple, their earnings have catapulted them to Billionaires status, a very rare and privileged social position. This Bonnie and Clyde, Ride or Die magnificent duo seem to have found the magical Midas wand that turns everything they touch into Gold.

This was why I, amongst millions watching , was moved by his very sensitive, sincere and, humble acceptance speech. And, although he has in the past, received over 21 similar awards, numerous recognition worldwide, JAY Z was arguably, the most humbling, from my point of view. I did not see none of those chest-beating bravado heroic self elevating commentaries and throwing spiteful shades at “haters”, no arrogance, corky demeanor or rants! Only a well dressed gentleman, showing a deep sense of gratitude and appreciation, for the values of his upbringing and, importance of family life.

The 49 year old, began by referring to Abraham Lincolns quote: “its not the amount of years in your life that counts, it’s the life in your years that counts”. He told how he had called his 93 year-old Grandma( who raised him and siblings) the night before the NAACP 50th Awards, and afterwards threw away his previously written speech and decided to speak from the heart.

“I like to dedicate this to my Beautiful Grandmother.Her name is Hattie White and she’s 93 years. She took in my mother Gloria and her other kids. on top of that, her kids had kids of their own, and all of us was raised in one household.” They lived under the same roof in Marcy projects, Brooklyn ,New York. When he asked how much she earned and how she managed to feed all of them on that income, she told him ” $20 a week, but it was fine because you could do a lot with that in those days”

JAY Z pointed out that , This was the propelling factor to his smooth flight, growing up under the wings of such beautiful, strong ,independent women. He developed a can do mentality early on, ” I grew up believing, I can accomplish anything I set my mind and heart to”.

He thanked the President and the NAACP organization, and, dedicated the award to “Hattie White and to those strong women in my house including my beautiful wife Beyoncé.” (The R &B and POP icon acknowledging her man the whole time with pride in her eyes and a supportive smile.) when she gets this award, JAY Z continued, she can place it on her mantle next to her favorite grandson picture . “And when she’s sneaking eating her pork, and her leg swell, she can look at it and remember how well of a ‘G’ she is!.”

Queen of R& B Beyonce’ ENTERTAINMENT OF THE YEAR winner.

BEYONCE’ thanked the honorable nominees in her category after receiving the Trophy from the gorgeous and brilliant Viola Davis (How to get a way with murder/widow star)

“Regina King, I love you so much, you taught us patience, persistence and how to be masterful in our craft. Chadwick Bozeman, in teaching our children to dream and to be seen as kings. LeBron James has taught us strength of all forms, and leading by example, promoting education to our kids. Ryan Coogler, you tell our stories in a way that celebrates our history and proves we do have power. I am happy to be included among all of you and be a part of a vital and thriving community.”

LETITIA WRIGHT – Outstanding Breakthrough Performance award.

The beautiful British-Guyanese actress in her mid 20’s appeared in a lovely black and silver two piece halter top and , a mini bottom, with a loose black cape-like sheath attached. Her hair was plaited in lovely corn-rows. Wright played the feisty ‘Shuri’, sassy and, a high tech genius sister to T’Challa in Black Panther.

In accepting her award, the obviously more shy in real life actress was very humble , spiritual and, filled with a sense of gratitude. In soft tones she tells the audience “Wow, I didn’t expect this at all. I just want to say a massive thank you for all of the support. I am a young actress from London , I just want to thank you for the love and support you have given me, as you know, coming into this country, to be blessed, and just be amongst you….I’m so grateful;thank you to my cast and crew of Black Panther , Ryan Coogler ..,I feel honored and privileged to share this stage with you. God Bless you on your journey, keep killing it. Wow, thank you, thank God, thank you Jesus!”.


Remember, Your Image Matters, So Live excellently!

Image is Everything


My first love is writing. What better way of communicating; if only people know how to do more of a two-way communication with better understanding, we wouldn’t be searching for the elusive World Peace.

As an Image and Fashion Consultant, life-stylist, Motivational speaker, Event Marketer and Promoter I meet a lot of people of diverse public, socio-cultural, political , economical, religious and ethnic backgrounds. I am like a sponge that like to soak up everything there is to learn. though ,It never seems like there’s enough time to do so.(You should read my poem Time is Fickle).I have come to the inference that what all people have in common despite their obvious differences, is the need to be accepted, heard and to be treated nicely!

I believe in Love Your Neighbor as Yourself; just doing unto others as you wish to be done to you.

Then, I believe no one can get far successfully in this life without a good Image or reputation. Often, who you say you are is not the same as what people perceive and, this ambiguity can cause serious confusion and sometimes damaging consequences!

I believe there is good publicity vs bad ones. Some insist that “any Publicity is good for Business”! That is a wrong notion, albeit debatable! Yet, everyone is entitled to believing their Truth. How long it shall stand the test, only time will reveal.

Some say “I don’t care what others think about me, it’s my life ,I can do what I want!” Nah! That’s just the Red bull-T talking! When the same people (whom you didn’t care about their opinions) turnaround to embrace and validate you, you become delirious with Happiness.

Appreciation is the grease that smooths the wheel of Happiness.

Bad Fame can lead you to temporary limelight and probably some easy $$ and perhaps millions of social media followers, but eventually prove destructive to your career, Image, health (emotional issues and depression could set in) also, financial setbacks for lawsuits, or failed businesses,from lack of patronage. It can be very costly, and, even affect your loved ones or others who care deeply about you. Most importantly, think about those who look up to you, your Mentees….Do you really want to disappoint?

Here you will also get some free advice and tips on working solutions at the office.

I believe that dressing for success is not a Cliche’! So I will be sharing some fashionable, Beauty and Stylish inspirations,trending news,and treating you to some of my creative writing gifts which includes; Quotes, poems, short stories, book and movie reviews and some Outstanding personality interviews!

I believe anyone can Inspire others to show forth their possible best and, I am willing to Be That Person who calls out your very Best and Lights the way!

Millicent Olaghere Blast

Remember, Your image is Everything, So live excellently!.