My first love is writing. What better way of communicating; if only people know how to do more of a two-way communication with better understanding, we wouldn’t be searching for the elusive World Peace.
As an Image and Fashion Consultant, life-stylist, Motivational speaker, Event Marketer and Promoter I meet a lot of people of diverse public, socio-cultural, political , economical, religious and ethnic backgrounds. I am like a sponge that like to soak up everything there is to learn. though ,It never seems like there’s enough time to do so.(You should read my poem Time is Fickle).I have come to the inference that what all people have in common despite their obvious differences, is the need to be accepted, heard and to be treated nicely!
I believe in Love Your Neighbor as Yourself; just doing unto others as you wish to be done to you.
Then, I believe no one can get far successfully in this life without a good Image or reputation. Often, who you say you are is not the same as what people perceive and, this ambiguity can cause serious confusion and sometimes damaging consequences!
I believe there is good publicity vs bad ones. Some insist that “any Publicity is good for Business”! That is a wrong notion, albeit debatable! Yet, everyone is entitled to believing their Truth. How long it shall stand the test, only time will reveal.
Some say “I don’t care what others think about me, it’s my life ,I can do what I want!” Nah! That’s just the Red bull-T talking! When the same people (whom you didn’t care about their opinions) turnaround to embrace and validate you, you become delirious with Happiness.
Appreciation is the grease that smooths the wheel of Happiness.
Bad Fame can lead you to temporary limelight and probably some easy $$ and perhaps millions of social media followers, but eventually prove destructive to your career, Image, health (emotional issues and depression could set in) also, financial setbacks for lawsuits, or failed businesses,from lack of patronage. It can be very costly, and, even affect your loved ones or others who care deeply about you. Most importantly, think about those who look up to you, your Mentees….Do you really want to disappoint?
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I believe that dressing for success is not a Cliche’! So I will be sharing some fashionable, Beauty and Stylish inspirations,trending news,and treating you to some of my creative writing gifts which includes; Quotes, poems, short stories, book and movie reviews and some Outstanding personality interviews!
I believe anyone can Inspire others to show forth their possible best and, I am willing to Be That Person who calls out your very Best and Lights the way!
Millicent Olaghere Blast
Remember, Your image is Everything, So live excellently!.
The traffic in Atlanta was particularly nightmarish due to rain on cold winter Thursday February 20 th. And the day had started rough. On the way to work, I realize I had forgotten my phone and, needed it to communicate with my good friend ,Dr.Connie who generously invited me to the JAZZ Concert . At the time, I had no clue who GREGORY PORTER is, nor had I listened to any of his songs. (strange, cos I am such a big JAZZ enthusiast. ) I had heard a few songs by his opening act LEDISI, but never seen her perform. I was more interested in Connie’s company, no matter where we go, even if it was a fast food place (like we had to stop at Wendy’s to get some bite that evening, no time for proper restaurant ) I knew we were going to share so much laughs about relationships faux pas or, hilarious jokes about body parts sliding down south with mid -age . Anyway, I digress, I wasn’t expecting my mind to be blown away, by JAZZ that night, I hardly knew the artists, I thought, at the time...(smile).
It took an hour in traffic to Cobb energy performing Arts Center, another half, locating a parking space , even if we prepaid parking,( which we didn’t) we still had to survive the bumper to bumper grind, despite heavy presence of Law enforcement officers directing traffic). Finally, got the third to last available space in the 1000 car parking lot. Woohoo!we were the lucky 998 (if you play this number in lottery, and win, remember to cut me my slice wink-wink).we were as deliriously happy as the last two would be!.
LEDISI ANIBADEYOUNG – Grammy Nom, SOUL TRAIN AND BET AWARD WINNER, the indefatigable American R& B SINGER /ACTRESS
Her style is sentimental, sultry, silky-smooth, intimately soul- stirring and sexy! ( yes ,a lot of S’s to describe this phenomenal woman). All similar attributes to one of her “biggest fan”, Legend American singer, and activist, Nina Simone. whom she paid tribute by doing a a philosophical version of her songtitled; ” BALTIMORE” . A song that reflects, hardships, murders, and starvation of people in the city. She earned my respect with that and several renditions.
She has been singing two decades now, since late 90’s she told the audience, ” I was told I would not survive long in this industry, because I was not Pretty enough, did not look like the others so called successful.” But the 47 years old crooner didn’t let her doubters destroy her dreams or confidence, she forged ahead anyways, and with her Mom always speaking words of encouragement and affirmations, she made it.” Now not only am I still standing, I am a CEO who owns her own recording LABEL! And now, my mom wants 15%” she laughs.” I am unapologetically strong black woman.You have to be careful, whom you surround yourself with, who speaks in your ears.”
Turns out she has a great sense of humor too, teasing us , once while doing a provocative dance, she pause, and said;” I am wearing shorts underneath” (in other words , don’t allow your imagination get the best of you) Lol. Also, she jokes about how women bodies go through changes, saying how the body have a mind of it’s own, and often you need to push some parts back, or “poke them,” and if you got none, “just hold strong” with a strong arm”
LEDISI is an African Yoruba name meaning “to bring forth“. A brilliant recording artist, song writer and also actress. some of her popular songs borders on relationships ups and down, unconditional love and dysfunctional relationships such as : “ So into you”(2011), Alright-Everything is Everything! “I blame you“, ( 2014 )” Pieces of me“,(2011) ” Stay together“(2011) and” All the way” (2017) “, Goin thru Changes”– the turn me loose if you are not gonna love me the way I should song (2009) . The movies include Selma, The Tale of Four and leave it on the Floor.
GREGORY PORTER -44, Nicknames include ” STINKY”,( when he and his bother were playing in young days, and he fell into um…something Stinky) ” G-Force” (when he played American football back in the day).But I like to nickname this hunk Human Teddy (as in Teddy Bear ). The GRAMMY Awardwinning Jazz Singer lives in California with with his wife and 7 year old son Demyan.
He has been played in popular cities all around the world. The versatile artist who rose from streets to wealthy place of prestige, becoming a Grammy winner against all odds, once told his audience how he learned to sew quilts inspired by women in Mississippi Delta . “The quilts were made by children of slaves.” No doubt , this is a place where inspiration for the song “INSANITY– take me to the Alley came from. He sings this with so much compassion and heart from deep inside his guts, it was impossible not to shed a few tears. some of the lyrics are“take me to the alley, to the afflicted ones, the lonely ones, who have somehow lost their ways. Let them hear me say , I am your friend, come and meet the King, and eat at my table, brother, sister, you will have a pardon”. It had a level of spiritual connectivity that stroke a cord and you just know you want to be part of this positive change too.
The band was sync in their elements; drummer, pianist, guitarist, however, the saxophonist took us to heaven and back ! Some of the moving songs where “Liquid Spirit”, and “holding on“, but my favorite (tough decision, I must say) is the up coming song from a peek into upcoming album ALL RISE “ If Love is Overated, Let me be the one that is naive“!” It is a love song in a negative environment such as the world is in, ” he tells us, ” Love is the energy that excites the heart and the head !” what a pulsating ride of musical ecstasy. And , when they played the jazzy version of Temptations’s “papa was a rolling stone”, you could put a fork in me, cause I was literally done! As for my hearing?, well, my friend, Connie and fellow screamers and whistlers, made it perfectly clear, I may be in need of ear drops soon !Lol.
Superbowl LIV 02022020! What a magnificent play.🏈🏆💯👏🥇 The Kansas City Chiefs for the first time since 1969 wins the Superbowl 2020.
Initially, I was rooting for 49ners just because of the excitement of Fred Warner and San Francisco team, so infectious was their enthusiasm. And they did play quite well, the defense was good. But awesome was more of what 24 year old -shoelover QB Patrick Mahomes specializes in! (Built a Custom room to hold his 180 pair of sneakers).Watching him run made me dizzy, every minute he had a turn over! His expertise at ball passing, tireless runs on full tank speed was exhilarating! The dude was on fire, 🔥 No wonder he was named MVP of this Superbowl. The Chiefs brought heat to Miami more than JLO and Shakira combo in their romp shaking, revealing mesmerizing outfit .The ballers served the main course, leaving no leftovers! Adidas , the sneaker giants dubbed him “the youngest QB Champ and Big -Game MVP in History!
Also feeling victorious, are the Latina’s who showed support and pride for the Stunning performances of the singing super stars JENNIFER LOPEZ (JLO) and; SHAKIRA during entertainment time at Hard Rock Stadium in Miami ,FL. They have been showing love and support via Instagram , Facebook, and Twitter and other social medial platforms. The energy was electrifying as the “Whenever-Wherever” SHAKIRA in sparkling gold and the more seasoned JLO “Lets Get Loud”, favoring sexy silver skimpy jumpsuit, stunned millions of fans in Miami during Pepsi sponsored half time by doing all of that , and more ….if there was a roof, it would have been on Fire!
By Millicent Olaghere-Blast.
Remember, Your Image matters, so Live excellently!.
Apollo 11 marked 50 whooping years since man landed on space!what a fantastic accomplishment.
This has been the year of Triumphant strides for the indefatigable successful writer and businessman Tyler Perry (MADEA FAME).PERRY was awarded his ” walk of fame’ square in Hollywood, with close Celeb friends and family in support, like Kerry Washington, IDris Elba .In same year gets his own street/exit in his home town ATL, and introduces two instant hit drama series:the Oval and Sistas on BET.Talk about Celebrating his 50th Birthday with Extravagant Pomp ,Style, and above all, seeing your dreams come to pass. Awesome!
Jennifer Lopez (JLO) and KeKe Palmer challenged themselves in their roles as strip-pole dancers and hustlers who swindled wealthy clients of millions of dollars in HUSTLERS (The movie was a model of real live daring stories that occurred in NYC around the span of 2008-2011).The movie grossed $105 million in US and over $156m worldwide.
Glamorous, beautiful American actress Soul Diahann Carroll of 80’s DYNASTY Fame , and in JULIA (American sitcom , she was a widow raising her son “CORY” in positive manner). Passed on at age of 84. She worked in an era of racial, social and gender inequality, yet, she maintained her uncompromising Standards, dignity and, Class.
Donald Trump becomes the 3rd US president to face Impeachment.(Others are Andrew Johnson and Bill Clinton,president Nixon did face some formal charges also during his term. Though, none has been removed while in office because, it’s how the government was set up. Dec 10th 2019, the Speaker of House Nancy Pelosi ‘arch enemy ‘ of the president (no love lost between those two, obvious from their social media bantering) got her ‘ pound of flesh’, dripping with blood, as she slammed two articles of impeachment; one for “misuse and abuse of power” for pressuring Ukraine government to investigate his political competitors, while withholding $400m in security funds. The other article of impeachment was for Trumps disregard and “obstructing investigations” into his probe ;deliberating falsifying and refusing to cooperate with congress!
And to all of this, Trump dubs : “the greatest witch hunting in the history of united states”. And this : “greatest Hoax”,! What the future holds politically for this grandiose speaking, 45th president remains to be seen. One thing that’s for sure, time is no more on his side, literarily!
THE BEAUTIFUL ONES ARE BORN
It was an eventful , interesting year 2019! The good, the bad,the Sad , the ugly, and the incredulous. Not all could be mentioned due to space constraint.
We hope for a better year 2020 with more positive news , less drama in the white house, Judiciary , legislative and law-making institutes. More productiveness, and affirmative actions in environmental climate change, reclaiming the ocean , waste reduction, recycling and re-newing our mindset.
The Gifts or The Gift Card which would you really prefer? Christmas Holidays are around the corner, many, especially men, worry and get panicky over selecting the best or perfect gifts for that special somebody,children;spouse, siblings, colleague, neighbor, teacher and so forth. In the past, I was sentimental about gifts; I didn’t care if it’s from 1$ store , Walmart, Nordstrom or online i.e China, LoL😀. To me it was “the thought that matters”! That was then!😂Now I know better!!! My time is precious, not wasting time looking, queuing to buy something, only for that someone to return / exchange follow week. What about you, what are your plans this year? A piece of advice, No gift is perfect, just like no perfect humans out there, so relax, and if in doubt ask someone close to the one you are buying a gift for, or ask them what they will prefer, after all, its almost 2020 nothing surprises us anymore!.CHEERS !!🎄🛒🛍️🎁📱👗👔👖👞💍
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Crack yourself and everyone up by sharing this hilarious, Laugh at Loud relationship advice book from, Comedian and The Real T.V talkshow Host, LONI LOVE. The reviews are wonderful. I have read it, and plan to again. LOVE obviously knows what she’s talking about. After lots of heartbreaks, she has finally found “the one”in JAMES WELSH, and is so happy , she can’t stop gushing, and sharing her joy with fans and friends on INSTAGRAM and other social media platforms.
If you are very religious or squeamish, let me warn you, there are some colorful choice words, so, don’t share jokes from this book, with the RABBI, REVEREND or PASTOR that comes to bless the FOOD
Find this book on Barnes and noble, Amazon and other Goodreads.(pricing may vary between $10.99-$20.00).
What ever you decide remember, there is someone out there, who wishes they were in your SHOES! So forget about the past, be in an Attitude of Gratitude, you made it this far, count your Blessings, sing along with others the Christmas carols. Try some thing new on the menu, make a new friend, be one, and most importantly, Keep HOPE alive!
YOU TUBE ! A phenomenal internet sensation, where hottest music , gaming videos can be streamed, up to the minute worldwide news ,life- impacting documentaries , bloggers platforms, businesses and diverse markets showcase their products and services, and even matchmaking agencies can connect consenting individuals where cupid has failed! Without YOU TUBE AND GOOGLE, I can assure you LIFE will be utterly meaningless to billions, including my humble self !Can you picture a world without either ? I think NOT!
How in the world could one exist otherwise. Yet it seems, if we do not read the fine prints carefully, one can still die from suffocation,condemnation,or worse ; Ignorance of the Law, in this case not abiding to the Rules and terms of engagement. This could be costly and should not be entered lightly, and if you already entered a contract then it will serve you well to re-read again, and pay attention to not just written warnings, but also what is left unsaid, in other words, read between the lines of the fine prints! Don’t allow your self to get locked up for being IGNORANT! This also goes to uneducated and semi-illiterates, especially in an age where reading is now considered burdensome and the only serious reading we do is T.V close captions, Box of cereal (trying to decipher what new flavor is added, or Game programs like;”who wants to be a millionaire”?, “Family feuds”, and “Jeopardy”!Pleading Ignorance will be met vehemently by this rejoinder” we sent you our Terms and services, and you acknowledged every single paragraph, so ignorance is not an excuse.!”
14 years ago, Feb 14 2015 three brilliant PayPal nerds in their mid -20’s Chad Hurley, Jawed Karim and Steve Chen, founded the phenomenal hot sensation known as YOU TUBE . The Trio later sold to GOOGLE in 2016, for a whopping sum of $1.65 billion. Naturally, terms and conditions of services have changed since then, and it will do you good to be aware.
FOUNDERS OF YOU-TUBE JAWED KARIM,(40) CHAD HURLEY(42) AND STEVE CHEN(41)
Our Terms of Service are changing on 10 December, 2019. You can preview the updated Terms. Until 10 December, 2019, the Terms below will continue to apply.
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Although YouTube will not be liable for your losses caused by any unauthorized use of your account, you may be liable for the losses of YouTube or others due to such unauthorized use.
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You agree not to distribute in any medium any part of the Service or the Content without YouTube’s prior written authorization, unless YouTube makes available the means for such distribution through functionality offered by the Service (such as the Embeddable Player).
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any use that YouTube expressly authorizes in writing.(For more information about what constitutes a prohibited commercial use, see our FAQ.)
If you use the Embeddable Player on your website, you may not modify, build upon, or block any portion or functionality of the Embeddable Player, including but not limited to links back to the YouTube website.
If you use the YouTube Uploader, you agree that it may automatically download and install updates from time to time from YouTube. These updates are designed to improve, enhance and further develop the Uploader and may take the form of bug fixes, enhanced functions, new software modules and completely new versions. You agree to receive such updates (and permit YouTube to deliver these to you) as part of your use of the Uploader.
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You agree not to collect or harvest any personally identifiable information, including account names, from the Service, nor to use the communication systems provided by the Service (e.g., comments, email) for any commercial solicitation purposes. You agree not to solicit, for commercial purposes, any users of the Service with respect to their Content.
In your use of the Service, you will comply with all applicable laws.
YouTube reserves the right to discontinue any aspect of the Service at any time.
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The Content on the Service, and the trademarks, service marks and logos (“Marks”) on the Service, are owned by or licensed to YouTube, subject to copyright and other intellectual property rights under the law.
Content is provided to you AS IS. You may access Content for your information and personal use solely as intended through the provided functionality of the Service and as permitted under these Terms of Service. You shall not download any Content unless you see a “download” or similar link displayed by YouTube on the Service for that Content. You shall not copy, reproduce, distribute, transmit, broadcast, display, sell, license, or otherwise exploit any Content for any other purposes without the prior written consent of YouTube or the respective licensors of the Content. YouTube and its licensors reserve all rights not expressly granted in and to the Service and the Content.
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You understand that when using the Service, you will be exposed to Content from a variety of sources, and that YouTube is not responsible for the accuracy, usefulness, safety, or intellectual property rights of or relating to such Content. You further understand and acknowledge that you may be exposed to Content that is inaccurate, offensive, indecent, or objectionable, and you agree to waive, and hereby do waive, any legal or equitable rights or remedies you have or may have against YouTube with respect thereto, and, to the extent permitted by applicable law, agree to indemnify and hold harmless YouTube, its owners, operators, affiliates, licensors, and licensees to the fullest extent allowed by law regarding all matters related to your use of the Service.
6. Your Content and Conduct
As a YouTube account holder you may submit Content to the Service, including videos and user comments. You understand that YouTube does not guarantee any confidentiality with respect to any Content you submit.
You shall be solely responsible for your own Content and the consequences of submitting and publishing your Content on the Service. You affirm, represent, and warrant that you own or have the necessary licenses, rights, consents, and permissions to publish Content you submit; and you license to YouTube all patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright or other proprietary rights in and to such Content for publication on the Service pursuant to these Terms of Service.
For clarity, you retain all of your ownership rights in your Content. However, by submitting Content to YouTube, you hereby grant YouTube a worldwide, non-exclusive, royalty-free, sublicenseable and transferable license to use, reproduce, distribute, prepare derivative works of, display, and perform the Content in connection with the Service and YouTube’s (and its successors’ and affiliates’) business, including without limitation for promoting and redistributing part or all of the Service (and derivative works thereof) in any media formats and through any media channels. You also hereby grant each user of the Service a non-exclusive license to access your Content through the Service, and to use, reproduce, distribute, display and perform such Content as permitted through the functionality of the Service and under these Terms of Service. The above licenses granted by you in video Content you submit to the Service terminate within a commercially reasonable time after you remove or delete your videos from the Service. You understand and agree, however, that YouTube may retain, but not display, distribute, or perform, server copies of your videos that have been removed or deleted. The above licenses granted by you in user comments you submit are perpetual and irrevocable.
You further agree that Content you submit to the Service will not contain third party copyrighted material, or material that is subject to other third party proprietary rights, unless you have permission from the rightful owner of the material or you are otherwise legally entitled to post the material and to grant YouTube all of the license rights granted herein.
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YouTube will terminate a user’s access to the Service if, under appropriate circumstances, the user is determined to be a repeat infringer.
YouTube reserves the right to decide whether Content violates these Terms of Service for reasons other than copyright infringement, such as, but not limited to, pornography, obscenity, or excessive length. YouTube may at any time, without prior notice and in its sole discretion, remove such Content and/or terminate a user’s account for submitting such material in violation of these Terms of Service.
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